Full Names
Jacob Talavera & Alexandra Vidger-Talavera
Occupations
Jacob – Oil & Gas – Mojo Minerals
Alex – Owner & Creative Director of Live Kolibri, Mens Sustainable Swimwear & Personal Stylist w/Ready to Where & Yoga Instructor at CorePower Yoga
Cultural Background
Jacob – Hispanic (Mother & Father)
Alex – Caucasian (Mother)
Where & How Did You Meet?
Our story is quite an unlikely one. Nowadays, when you ask couples how they first met, more often than not, they will mention some version of an online dating app. We’re not saying that’s a bad thing, but it’s always refreshing to hear an unlikely love story with raw beginnings—two different people meeting in an unexpected way, in a foreign place, and somehow ending up together against all odds.
Fortunately for us, that’s our story.
Our story began on July 3rd, 2019, on the North Shore of Lake Tahoe, specifically in Incline Village. A friend Jake had met in college invited a few buddies to his lake house for the 4th of July weekend. It was a good mix of friends, and one of the girls asked if she could bring a couple of her hometown friends from Denver on the trip. Of course, the group said yes.
After we met, we were literally inseparable. We only had eyes for each other. We got to know one another pretty well during that trip, which brought us even closer. There was an immediate connection between us that wouldn’t fade. We couldn’t get enough of each other. On the last night of the trip, we were having an intimate conversation when Alex asked, “Do you think we are ever going to see each other again?” I looked at Alex and said, “I will do everything I can to see you again.”
After that, with Alex living in Denver, Colorado, and Jake living in Scottsdale, Arizona, we both decided we were determined to make it work and began a long-distance relationship. Jake would fly out to Denver twice a month, and Alex would have extended visits to Scottsdale once a month. Eventually, work brought Jake to Dallas, Texas, and we decided to move to Dallas together. And as they say, the rest is history.
Where Did You Get Married & Why Did You Pick That Location?
We got married at the historic Broadmoor Hotel in Colorado Springs. We actually locked in the venue within three days of getting engaged. Alex grew up visiting that hotel with her family, so it held a special place in her heart. Once Alex and I started dating, we took a trip there, and she shared that special place with me. The Broadmoor is an immaculate hotel, and I could see why she loved it and what it meant to her. Nestled against Cheyenne Mountain, the Broadmoor offers beautiful views and a powerful aura. We wanted a place with character and class, where our friends and family could all stay together.
What Was the Most Important Thing to Each of You When Planning Your Wedding?
Alex and her mom were an absolute force to be reckoned with and had everyone and everything locked in for this wedding. No detail was overlooked, and no problem was too big to handle. They planned this production like SEAL Team 6. For Alex, the most important thing was to ensure that she wasn’t too stressed and that the wedding reflected who we are, celebrating love for us and everyone around us.
For me, the most important thing was to realize that this was OUR day. No matter what goes right or what goes wrong, we are here for each other. We are here for our love. We are here to join each other in an eternal walk of life. So, being present and focusing on our love was most important to me.
Lastly, we both wanted everyone to party their butts off and HAVE FUN! We even had a 16-piece band because music means so much to both of us. Jacob comes from a family of musicians, so having a live band was very important to us.
What Does Family Mean to You?
Family is the foundation for both of us individually and as a couple. We try to see our families as often as possible because they are our roots and our best friends. The values and morals we hold true today stem from our upbringing. Now, we have the task and the honor of starting a family of our own. We have the opportunity to add to those values and morals once we have kids, and we now have the chance to become the rock and the roots for a new generation.
What Tips Would You Give to a Couple Planning Their Wedding?
For Jake, my advice would be to let your fiancé and her mom absolutely take charge! Don’t worry—they have a vision for what this day will be. It’s the day that every girl dreams of, and it will be perfect. Of course, when you’re needed, you better step up, help make decisions, and be the rock your fiancé needs you to be if something goes awry.
For Alex, it’s to have fun with it. You’re planning a party at the end of the day. Don’t stress about what could go wrong because something always will. For example, one of my bridesmaids showed up in the wrong color dress! Just laugh about it, grab a drink, and hit the dance floor. It’s your day. You only get married once, so why worry about what could go wrong? Just focus on being present, surrounded by your new husband and all your friends!
