Tulum has no shortage of jungle-chic hotels promising “authentic” escapes, but too often the reality is more style than substance. For couples dreaming of a retreat that blends intimacy, romance, and meaningful connection in chic surroundings, Bespoke Tulum offers something refreshingly different. It’s been a couple of months since my stay, and I can’t stop thinking about how much I loved my stay at this boutique resort.
Set on tranquil Tankah Bay – about a 15-minute drive away from Tulum’s lively beaches and nightlife – Bespoke pairs award-winning architecture with warm, personalized hospitality. Instead of standard hotel rooms, at Bespoke Tulum, you’ll find 22 private apartments and villas that range from 1 to 4 bedrooms. The stylish earth-toned residences highlight Mexican craftsmanship, adorned with local flora and thoughtful fixtures that make each villa feel like a serene extension of home.
Step outside your villa and you’ll find a collection of modern low-rise buildings, connected by pathways adorned with lush vegetation, anchored by small swimming pools and contemporary architectural features. All paths lead to the jewel of the resort: a crystalline infinity pool facing a breathtaking stretch of beachfront – home to Bespoke’s private beach club, which is available to all guests.
Beyond the infinity pool, the highlight is Ícaro, Bespoke’s signature restaurant, which draws on South American and Mayan traditions to create dishes inspired by the “magic song of nature.” Dining here feels less like a meal and more like a celebration of flavor, culture, and connection. With a view that looks out onto the perfectly turquoise waves, I loved starting my day here with a latte, and I am still thinking about their mouthwatering shrimp tacos – juicy and flavorful with just the right amount of heat. I’d end my nights at Ícaro, enjoying a mezcal cocktail with the waves as my soundtrack.
The first time I visited Bespoke, I was struck not just by the beauty of my 2,000-square-foot villa with its private rooftop pool, but by the small details that made the experience unforgettable: the attentiveness of the staff, the home-cooked taste of the food, and the effortlessly stylish design. Like the name suggests, everything about the space was tailored to feel intimate, elevated, and designed for ultimate relaxation.
But what truly sets Bespoke apart for couples is its wellness and ritual offerings; experiences that go beyond the ordinary spa menu. Bespoke invites guests to nurture both body and spirit through a series of ceremonies inspired by Mayan and pre-Hispanic traditions.
Imagine sharing a Couples Lunar Ceremony, a nighttime massage beneath the moon, or reigniting passion through a Couples Fire Ceremony, complete with cacao, vows of intention, and a ritual that feels both grounding and transcendent. The Mayan Wedding Ceremony, led by a local shaman, offers a uniquely powerful way for couples to celebrate their union, set amidst the jungle and the sea.
For those craving additional healing, the resort’s offerings include sound therapy, cacao and forgiveness ceremonies, chakra harmonizing, and even mud rituals that connect guests with the energy of the earth. More transformative experiences await in the nearby villages, such as Mayan Healing in a traditional temazcal sweat lodge next to a cenote, followed by a restorative Yucatecan feast, which is designed as a rebirth for both body and soul.
Couples seeking guidance can explore their spiritual connection with Akashic Records readings or a Human Design session, helping them understand their relationship’s unique dynamics and shared path forward. It’s a rare kind of wellness program – one that’s deeply rooted in indigenous culture and designed to bring couples closer together.
Certified as a Zero Waste Establishment and a proud signatory of The Tulum Pledge, Bespoke is committed to sustainability. Every detail reflects a commitment to nature, culture, and community, creating a setting where couples can relax responsibly.
For honeymooners, newlyweds, or couples seeking to reconnect, Bespoke Tulum offers more than a romantic getaway. It’s a sanctuary where luxury and wellness converge. It’s Tulum without the clichés: serene, soulful, and unforgettable.
