In today’s fast-paced world—shaped by pandemics, shifting leadership, evolving workplace norms, and the rapid growth of AI—embracing life’s beauty can serve as a grounding force. At the heart of navigating uncertainty lies a growth mindset: the belief that abilities, choices, and intelligence can be nurtured through effort, intention, and attitude. This mindset helps us adapt to changes, overcome obstacles, and appreciate life’s simple joys, like pausing to “stop and smell the roses.”
I recently embraced this philosophy during a peaceful fall getaway to serene Southampton Village, NY. Known for its captivating blend of scenic natural beauty, historic charm, upscale wineries, restaurants, and exclusive luxury, Southampton stands as an iconic jewel of The Hamptons. This celebrated region, consisting of picturesque towns, villages, and hamlets, is a summer haven for sun-seekers and a renowned retreat from New York City’s fast-paced lifestyle. Its vibrant social scene, often marked by celebrity sightings, adds to its allure. Visiting in the fall, however, reveals a different side of Southampton. Free from the summer crowds and frenetic energy, I was able to immerse myself in its relaxing charm and understated elegance. Whether relishing quiet moments or exploring its offerings, my two-night sojourn at the Southampton Inn was truly rejuvenating.
This experience was further enhanced by the warm hospitality of their charming, well-appointed, 90-room, pet-friendly boutique hotel, located in the heart of Southampton Village. It feels like a blend of a charming bed and breakfast and a full-service hotel. The property includes a heated 50-foot outdoor pool, an all-weather tennis court, a ballroom, and a cozy sitting area with a fireplace on the main floor. The gracious owner, Dede Gotthelf, and her attentive staff provided a personal tour of the property, showcasing its indoor and outdoor venues—perfect for hosting an elegant, custom-made wedding weekend. The hotel’s European-style restaurant, Claude’s, adds to the charm with weekly specials like Jazz Night every Thursday, a delectable dinner menu, and a bottomless mimosa brunch on Sundays from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. The beautifully manicured grounds provided the perfect setting for practicing yoga under majestic maple trees and meditating in tranquility.
While exploring the nearby village, I discovered Le Closet, a luxury consignment shop, where I snagged a stunning pair of Balenciaga boots along with a few other must-have treasures. A short drive led me to the scenic Duck Walk Vineyards for a lovely wine pairing and tasting. I ended day one with a savory tasting dinner at the Italian restaurant Tutto Il Giorno, owned by American fashion designer Donna Karan’s son-in-law and designed in an intimate, modern atmosphere by his wife, Gabby Karan De Felice. The next day, I wrapped up my “East End” adventure with a rejuvenating Vinyasa flow class, compliments of owner Mary Angela Buffo at the Ananda Wellness & Yoga Center, followed by an appetizing sushi lunch at Union Burger Bar.
Embracing a growth mindset enables you to focus on nurturing your mind, body, and health, revitalizing your spirit in the process. Cultivate curiosity by fostering a habit of lifelong learning through altruism, self-discovery, or travel. Celebrate progress by acknowledging small victories and incremental improvements along the way—moment by moment, all year round. For those seeking a rejuvenating weekend escape or planning a special occasion, I encourage you to explore the “magically delicious” charm of Southampton Inn. Visit www.southamptoninn.com to learn more and discover why it’s a destination worth enjoying any time of the year. Carpe florem!
